I am very much against compensation and suing for the sake of it. However I feel I should be persuing something/someone after my mother's death.
Nearly two years ago my mum, aged 47, had a stiff shoulder/arm for a week or so. She thought she had pulled a muscle while driving as her car didn't have power steering.
One night it got so bad that she phoned the out of hours GP (it was around midnight) who examined her and told her it was indeed a pulled muscle and gave her some heavy duty painkillers and sent her home.
The dr asked my mum whether she had any tingling in her fingers/hands and she confirmed she did. In addition to this my mum was on medication for high blood pressure, was around 4 stone overweight and a heavy (20+ per day) smoker. To the best of my dad's knowledge, who went with her to the waiting room but not into the appointment, no medical history was taken by the dr.
The following morning my mum was still in pain but had to go into work for an hour as one of her staff called in sick. That morning she also had a hospital clinic appointment unrelated to her shoulder pain.
That afternoon, around 12 hours after she saw the emergency GP she died in my dad's arms after suffering a massive heart attack.
My problems are this: 1) a quick google search on heart disease in women gave shoulder pain as a primary symptom 2) she was in her forties, a common age for women to present with heart disease 3) the pain was severe enough for her contact a GP out of hours 4) she was a heavy smoker 5) she was obese 6) she was on medication for high blood pressure.
Surely it is not outside the realms of possibility for a dr to consider a heart problem with the above presentation of symptoms?
There is every chance that even if the dr had spotted what was really wrong that she may have died anyway and I accept that. At the moment I feel my mum's life was lost due to one dr's ineptitude and keen-ness to get back to bed.
From an outsider's point of view, am I being unreasonable? Am I expecting too much? Would a simple blood test and blood pressure check have revealed the real cause of my mum's pain? Is it worth persuing to hopefully avoid someone else losing a parent/wife/grandmother so unecessarily?