Thanks this is interesting.
Pensions are decent (not huge but ok), both paying 7-8% in plus employer contributions. I have a stocks and shares ISA I contribute to each month, a LISA, and a SIPP that has my smaller pension from previous employers. Also have a junior ISA and junior SIPP for our DC.
No debts other than mortgage, but that has 25 years left. We have done an extension and complete renovation already, a few bits to finish off that we’re paying for gradually.
I get what you are saying about reducing spend and it’s definitely worth looking at, although we are already pretty careful. We have sim only phone contracts, no car payments, I get my hair cut about twice a year and dye it at home. We meal plan and cook at home, often take packed lunches on days out, buy clothes in sales. But we enjoy days out and whilst I’ll keep an eye out for discounts I don’t really hesitate to go out somewhere for the day, and don’t have a problem buying ice creams and coffees etc when we’re out.
I totally agree that paying a lump sum into a pension would be beneficial long-term, especially if it helps us retire earlier. Also the mortgage is big (we have 50% equity but 25 years left, we make small overpayments currently but also feeling like paying it off early isn’t necessarily the best option). I don’t want to use the money to make any further changes at home though, we’ve spent enough. We are working to rebuild our rainy day fund at the moment, too.
I guess I’m thinking about ideas to build something here and now, not spending it little by little and not just saving for the future. I have a friend who has a photo booth business, for example, as a side hustle. Is buying and renovating property still viable, with high costs of materials and labour (we don’t have time to do it ourselves, haven’t finished our own house)? Or is that amount enough to start a business that would eventually free us from working 40 hours a week? I appreciate that’s hard to say without knowing our skillsets but would be great to hear any success stories or ideas. I guess it’s finding a balance between the time and returns - can we find something that will give us better returns than investing it, whilst still being time efficient?
I guess I’m just a bit fed up of working, saving, but not really feeling like we’re getting anywhere. I appreciate that in reality we are not in a bad place and I’m very grateful for that, but can’t help but feel there has to be more to life, I’m just not sure what. Maybe I’m just having a midlife/perimenopause moment!