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What financial advice would you give your younger self?

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JinksySaur · 20/08/2026 13:32

What advice would you give your younger self?

I'd probably tell my 18 year old self to stop spaffing my year-out job money up the wall, and invest it instead 😂

I'd tell my early-20s self to open a pension and drip a bit in each month.

I'd tell my early-30s self to increase salary sacrifice.

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Mooselooseinmyhoose · 22/08/2026 20:11

Dont get married! Divorce is mighty expensive

Kirschcherries · 22/08/2026 21:52

I wish I had known about Index Tracker funds for S&S ISAs.

1975wasthebest · 23/08/2026 07:40

Save to buy a house. Two bedroom terraced houses in the city where I currently rent sold for £34k in 2002, a couple of years after I graduated. They now sell for £230k and now I can’t afford to buy one on my own.

Somersetbaker · 23/08/2026 11:34

Never lend money unless you can afford to lose it. There is also some truth that "if you look after the pennies, the pounds look after themselves".

shhblackbag · 23/08/2026 11:37

Invest as soon as possible. Have sinking funds for savings.

Boreded · 28/08/2026 10:54

OublietteBravo · 21/08/2026 21:24

@Boreded - I actually made decisions for my DC when they were small.

For example, I started their pensions when they were 10 and 12. Which means that DD (22) has the same pension projection at 60 as I do (I pay a lot more into my pension - more than 10x the amount I put into hers). Compounding is amazing - make the most of it!

Prior to that I set up S&S child trust funds. They transferred these into ISAs when they reached 18.

My advice would be:

Do not drop to PT. I know childcare is expensive, but having a career and keeping up with your pension contributions is really important. Plus there are so many more flexible working options nowadays.

Increase the amount you save when you get a payrise. You don’t miss money you’re not used to spending. So save it rather than adapting your lifestyle to your new salary.

Tracker funds are a great way to start investing. You don’t need to know much. You can just pick a fund that tracks the FTSE or whatever.

Don't bother with bonds/gilts. They’re supposed to be low risk, but my experience is that they’re not really (and tracker funds tend to outperform them by some way).

Put the money for your annual tax return in Premium Bonds. It’s not really your money, so you have to save it somewhere - and it’s fun to see if you’ve won each month.

Invest rather than overpaying your mortgage. This seems counterintuitive. But over 25/30 years the compounding effect of investing is likely to beat the amount of interest you save by some margin.

Understand tax. Know what is taxed and what isn’t. Monitor the latest policy changes. Think about salary sacrifice if you’re close to a cliff edge.

Plan for retirement. Pensions are a really tax-efficient way to save. But the money buoy receive from a pension is taxed as income. ISA savings are made after you’ve been taxed, but the money isn’t when you access it. A balance of both gives you flexibility.

Tall to your children about money. Because they need to learn. Being coy isn’t going to help them.

I love these…and agree 💯 with all except the mortgage overpayment one. Only because I think at the right time a mortgage overpayment can be powerful in getting to where you want sooner, and can reduce financial burdens when you need it most.

@FillTheGoldenCupWithRoses

Sorry you had difficulties, I wonder though, if you had stretched when you were young would you not be in a better position with more equity etc when you became a single income household?

When I say stretch I think I mean more about buying your forever home that you could be comfortable living in for life. Ours was right at the top of our budget, however we were on very low wages. Now we have increased these significantly but haven’t had to move because we already had a 3 bed detached in a nice area with decent sizes downstairs extensions to allow a separate games room/man cave…would I love a 4 or 5 bed, yeah, but with one child I don’t need it and instead I was able to use the extra money to buy my relatives property when they struggled.

Stretching before you have any children or real financial commitments means locking in your forever home’s price rather than watching the cost of the properties around you rise eating up your pay increases, and winding down the number of years you can have a mortgage so making the payments when you do move even higher.

FillTheGoldenCupWithRoses · 28/08/2026 11:02

@BorededI AM young! I am 31! We bought our forever home just 2 years prior to DHs catastrophic health issue. So no equity built. Thank God it was affordable still. You do not know if you will have 50 years, 5 years or less before something could happen. Taking risks is great long term. But you do not know if you will get long term.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 28/08/2026 11:08

Stay at home a bit longer and save up to buy. DH and I were desperate to live together we moved in young and got stuck renting for 20 years. Bought a house last year. Also stop spending beyond your means. The debt I’m in now started with an overdraft in my early twenties

HollyhockDays · 28/08/2026 11:22

Don’t get into debt. Work harder at school and do a degree that leads to an actual job eg medicine. Buying stuff is not a route to happiness.

Optimisticdramalarma · 28/08/2026 11:32

'See your boyfriend as the cocklodger he is,dump him and run'

Don't for the love of God,repeat it with the next'

'Oh and don't trust your (narcissistic) mother-she will con you out of every penny you have and come back for more with a smile on her face and a massive tantrum to your face when you have nothing left to give'

'Chase the csa for what your dc are entitled to and don't allow them to fob you off'

Thankfully I own my own home now but have wasted thousands on others

Boreded · 28/08/2026 16:33

FillTheGoldenCupWithRoses · 28/08/2026 11:02

@BorededI AM young! I am 31! We bought our forever home just 2 years prior to DHs catastrophic health issue. So no equity built. Thank God it was affordable still. You do not know if you will have 50 years, 5 years or less before something could happen. Taking risks is great long term. But you do not know if you will get long term.

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Yeah absolutely, it wouldn’t have helped you in the slightest would it. It was a really good job that it was still affordable on one income, you don’t need to be having to try to move with no equity and a health issue to deal with at the same time. Hope everything is manageable now.

I think because I bought at 22 so I could just jump in and if something went wrong it wouldn’t be such a problem to start again. But yeah, a big health change would have been an issue for me too

Badbadbunny · 28/08/2026 16:45

Prioritise things like savings, pensions, life insurance, private health insurance, etc at as young an age as possible - with savings & pensions, compound growth is a game changer, even with small amounts, over 40 years - you're looking at an extra "nought" on your savings/pension pots! For life and health insurance, premiums are a lot cheaper the younger you start.

Yes, look after the pennies and the pounds DO look after themselves. Get into good habits as soon as possible, i.e. shop around for offers/deals, etc., buy in bulk, get in the habit of using comparison sites for insurance, utilities, and use them every year rather than allow auto-renewal. Get in the habit of NOT impulse buying, especially for anything more than a few pounds - whether in shops or online, get in the habit of "sleeping on it" and think again the next day whether it's something you really need (you'll often actually forget about it which tells you you didn't need it!). On trips, take your own "go bag" with drinks, snacks etc so you don't have to buy over priced food and drink in service stations, rail stations, attractions, etc. except for where there's "real value" in say having a cream tea over-looking a historic monument or natural landmark etc. - places where having a can of coke and bag of crisps would ruin the moment!

SuperGinger · 28/08/2026 16:47

Don't buy fripperies.

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