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How to manage grandchildren’s inheritance for university costs and future house deposit

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Magnificentkitteh · 21/06/2026 11:10

My DM sadly passed away last year. Her estate is split between her 2 children and 4 grandchildren in various shares. My 2 DC have inherited c£65k each which is intended to help with university costs or setting themselves up with a house deposit. The advice online seems to be to invest in stocks and shares ISAs if you'll be leaving it for more than 5 years, which is the case for the younger grandchildren but my oldest is 15 and planning to go to uni at 18. Is this still the best option for her? Even if it is the tax free allowance is £9k per year so presumably most of it would have to go into a different sort of account.

I'm a bit clueless as to when the bills will fall for uni. Would she be better off investing her money and taking a loan for the fees, or paying the fees upfront?

I think uni costs will use up pretty much all of her money but it would be good to be able to help her with a house deposit as well which I can start to save for if I use my share of the inheritance to pay down our mortgage.

We'd obviously want to do the same for our youngest if but there's 4 years between them so her money will have more chance to grow so will need to work out what's fair. In any case by the time our youngest is ready to leave home we could downsize or relocate to release more funds. I guess there's our own old age to think about but we both have public sector pensions which I'm hoping would be enough to live off once the mortgage is paid off. We are currently 20 yearsish away from retirement.

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FieldsOfFields · 21/06/2026 21:19

I have a child at uni in private halls of residence for their second year. It costs £8k. They also do not need £5k to live on as quoted above. My children get minimum maintenance loan. As this is my second child at uni they are costing me £6.5k this year and the same next year (tenancy is shorter for the final year despite increase in rent cost) so in total over 3 years £19k because they took the loans. Lots of students work before uni, during uni and in the summer holidays.

What I would advise, is as much as they can for a house deposit. My eldest child has a graduate job, they started on £33k salary and are saving for a house. Their student loan is plan 2 (DC2 will be plan 5 and there are salary calculators that factor this in) their monthly take home pay would be £2246 with just tax, NI and student loan amount. Their student loan payment from that is £27. Just £27.

How long do you think it would take him to save £65k on that salary? Years, plural. If we had the money to fund uni fully we still would have given a house deposit instead.

I have also seen advice on taking the 25% pension drawdown to pay off the mortgage and then pay the equivalent mortgage payments back into your pension. Have a look at James Shack on Youtube, his pension videos are good.

peneIope · 22/06/2026 00:40

Magnificentkitteh · 21/06/2026 17:42

Is there any reason you're being so arsey to me? You might be loaded but my kids have always expected to fund themselves at least partially through uni, as most people do, along with subsidies from us to the level we can afford. This would logically be via loans. My DM left some of her money to them to help us collectively with this, for which I'm grateful and want to ensure it's not wasted, but we are not loaded and still have ongoing living expenses. And yes of course dd2 would be treated the same, but since she's only 11 the advice to invest her money now is more straightforward.

I have already said that we plan to help them with house deposits as and when we are in a position to do so. That logically comes later. At the moment they are living in the house that would be used to fund them.

But also, at some point I expect my adult DDs to fund themselves, again as most people do, and they expect that of themselves. It's a question of balance.

Glad you found the LISA suggestion helpful. (I shan’t reply to your personal comments! Wink)

MusterStrength · 22/06/2026 14:39

Over 18 put money into LISA
Government adds free money
Use to buy their first property

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