M-I-L has to out of her house by mid feb(has been sold
as she cant pay the morgage on her own-just finalised
divorce) thing is dear s-i-l is not doing much to help,
her dh, is a complete waste of space, hes nasty,two
faced, antisocial,grudgeholding so and so. m-i-l has a
old dog, not one that will chew stuff up or pee
everywhere, hes old, placid and wouldnt hurt a fly, but
m-i-l cant find anywhere to rent that will take pets in
her price range(£500 tops pcm) so we have now become
the main contenders in her plight, s-i-l's dh wont have
m-i-l's dog at theirs as he thinks that it gave his
dogs fleas a while back(they live in thesticks and more
than likely they caught them from running round in long
grass as m-i-l's dog didnt have fleas)so she is stuck
for accomodation. the thing is, I feel obliged because
she took us both in for 3 months when I was pregnant,
but as I am currently on benefits it will be really
hard, It means that I will no longer claim as that
would be fraud, so we will all be living on pennies,
actually the figures dont add up-at all. it also means
that when I plan to go back to college in sept, i will
have to pay for a)my course £250 b)my childcare-in
excess of £100 a week, Its not going to happen, its not
possible, I just dont know what to do??? have passed
wrd around about looking for a job/sunday job, I feel
that this is going to bring thingscrashing down around
me, but I dont know how I can no, I cant really waht do
i do???????????