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Question about Financial advisor -help

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Carlawith · 17/11/2025 16:57

My husband died suddenly at work 10 years ago. His firm were really good and a financial advisor they used helped me sort out his pension - he did the first year free…but I agreed to carry on with him . My money invested and I get a monthly allowance from it . However when I look at the annual fee - I feel I’d be better to just have my money and put it in a building society and just use it if I need it. I now get my state pension and tho working will retire soon and ge5 a small pension.
I live in a small house and we are not talking large sums of money. I get stressed when I get paperwork from them etc - how difficult will it be for it to be transferred.
i am not from a world that uses advisors - I was just so stressed after the death of my husband but - I dread asking them as I get overwhelmed by men in suits …..sorry if not making sense. Do many people have financial advisors - is it better to have a lump sum and use that for funds rather than a pension.

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Louloubelles · 17/11/2025 17:03

You can get free knowledgeable advice from Facebook groups like “rebel finance school” or “meaningful money”. I would ask there before withdrawing. There are some very kind and helpful people on there who will be able to advise you. Just post what you have here.

gianfrancogorgonzola · 17/11/2025 17:06

what's the fee? is he part of a bigger firm?

I recommend the reddit forum UKPersonalFinance - if you post there with as many details as you have they will help you

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 17/11/2025 17:15

By coincidence, just today I asked ChatGTP "If I had £250,000 to put into a SIPP (Self-Invested Personal Pension) what would you recommend?"

It replied...

'I can’t give personalised financial advice, but I can give you a solid framework and examples of how someone might think about spreading a £250,000 SIPP investment depending on goals, time horizon, and risk tolerance.'

... and provided three pages of things to consider which is very informative. You could try asking a similar question.

Carlawith · 17/11/2025 17:34

Thank you everyone - I will look at those sites

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Vegetablestallvillages · 17/11/2025 17:44

Secondly, it depends where your money is currently invested

If money is in ISAs, it should be tax free

However if you receive your state pension, plus some other money, you may need to pay some tax.

I would ask your current financial person

What is your current money stored in ?
ISA ?
Pension ?
Annunity ?
What are the annual charges ?

nannynick · 17/11/2025 18:10

Many pensions can be transferred into something that you can self manage. However you need to be confident in taking actions yourself, deciding what to invest in and how to take withdrawals.

You can learn it. I taught myself by listening to podcasts, watching YouTube, reading books.

Perhaps a starting point is to get some books about retirement planning. If someone is struggling to decide what to get you for Christmas then suggest a book.

The Meaningful Money Retirement Guide - Pete Matthew
The Retirement Cafe Handbook - Justin King

Those two are written by UK based financial planners, aimed at people in the UK who are nearing or in retirement. They both also have podcasts and YouTube channels, so you can read the book and then delve deeper, so you gain confidence in how you can manage the pension.

ozarina · 17/11/2025 18:29

It really depends on how much you have and what form it is . Is it an annuity? Was it a lump sum? Will it die with you? Does it make money?

Bjorkdidit · 18/11/2025 05:34

If your money is invested in ISAs or a pension that pays you an income, you can probably just stop paying for it to be managed and transfer it to a platform like Vanguard or similar, which probably won't be difficult to do, just filling in some information on a website.

I also recommend the Meaningful Money website, podcasts etc. It's by a financial advisor telling people that they generally don't need a financial advisor. I've searched for 'pensions' on the website and here are some potentially useful episodes

https://meaningfulmoney.tv/?s=pensions&cat=1842

He's also written a book about pensions that will probably be useful:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Meaningful-Money-Retirement-Guide-Everything-ebook/dp/B0DT6XCZWT/ref=sr_1_2?crid=30L3F28WDTXSB&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.qUy6vjzv85NzfDxrc6UWpzzV-jl-vQrHCl9HAWUVW8c1z5L_MXyIgBWh8rQL8vpF8diZojP4jueXR6WPm6yQP9RMNb5K2EYQwR7bR5PAvQf6aOEfmfUV2XP6uPa5hP_Y.JNZHWoTLnk_x9fJ6Tw98uMPEGvvUlJYDVzurV8AyHWs&dib_tag=se&keywords=meaningful+money+retirement+guide&qid=1763443947&s=digital-text&sprefix=meaningfu%2Cdigital-text%2C135&sr=1-2

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https://www.amazon.co.uk/Meaningful-Money-Retirement-Guide-Everything-ebook/dp/B0DT6XCZWT/ref=sr_1_2?crid=30L3F28WDTXSB&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.qUy6vjzv85NzfDxrc6UWpzzV-jl-vQrHCl9HAWUVW8c1z5L_MXyIgBWh8rQL8vpF8diZojP4jueXR6WPm6yQP9RMNb5K2EYQwR7bR5PAvQf6aOEfmfUV2XP6uPa5hP_Y.JNZHWoTLnk_x9fJ6Tw98uMPEGvvUlJYDVzurV8AyHWs&dib_tag=se&keywords=meaningful%20money%20retirement%20guide&qid=1763443947&s=digital-text&sprefix=meaningfu%2Cdigital-text%2C135&sr=1-2&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-money-matters-5445807-question-about-financial-advisor-help

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