In about a month, I’m going to be hearing about an offer of compensation from a bank, and although I don’t know yet how much it will be, I am finding it difficult to think about much else.
I do know it will be a minimum of £200,000 - could be substantially more.
I’m mid-forties, never had financial security, and am starting to feel anxious about what will be the best way to protect my future with this money.
I’m married with one DC. DH is not expecting or keen for me to pay off the mortgage as then it would feel like my house rather than our house. I’m completely burnt out at work but I don’t actually want to quit - not just for financial reasons, I’ve been in the same organisation for 20 years and there’s genuinely nothing else I’d rather do.
This feels like my one and only chance to have some financial security (which I know is one more chance than a lot of people get) - there’s no inheritance coming my way and little prospect of substantial income uplift from my job.
if you’ve had a windfall, or you’ve dreamed of having one (haven’t we all, I suppose…) - how did you/would you get the balance right between enjoying it and improving your quality of life, and making sensible choices to protect your future?