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My horrendous Loan experience

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Myloannightmare · 26/08/2025 13:13

I’m a teacher, a husband, and a father. What I thought would be a straightforward loan process with a regulated financial firm has instead left me feeling deeply distressed and struggling with my mental health.

Over the past few years, I’ve had ongoing problems with this company. Two separate complaints I raised about irresponsible lending were upheld by the firm itself. Despite that, I continued to experience difficulties with my account, including confusing and contradictory loan schedules and balance changes that I couldn’t make sense of.Just last week, over £7k was deducted from my loan balance and then added back on, along with two extra months to my schedule!!

Throughout this period, I repeatedly told the firm (more than 40 times) that I was struggling with my mental health and was in a vulnerable position, including suicidal ideation. Instead of feeling supported, I received multiple arrears notices in a very short period of time- one time I received 7 in 24 hours , which contributed to a serious mental health crisis for me.

When the firm finally sent me a formal response, it included a small offer of £50 for distress, which I personally found inadequate given the impact this situation has had on my wellbeing. At the same time, I was told someone would contact me about a payment plan, even though my complaint was still ongoing with the FOS. To me, that felt confusing and out of step with the complaints process.

despite telling them of my vulnerabilities they still emailed me, inviting me to apply for a new loan.

recently I had to reach out to a mental health crisis support organisation as the stress of this has pushed me to the very brink.

From my perspective, this experience highlights the challenges vulnerable customers can face when dealing with financial firms, and why I believe stronger safeguards are needed. The FCA’s Consumer Duty requires firms to avoid foreseeable harm and treat customers fairly. In my own case, I don’t feel those principles were met.

I wanted to share my story in case it helps others who may be going through something similar, and to raise awareness of how important it is for regulated firms to handle vulnerable customers with care.

OP posts:
Perfectcake · 29/08/2025 17:57

They are awful companies and I am sorry it has been so hard. Is there another adult who can be the intermediary for you so you do g have to chase and sort things out? It is what you need. Then you have a check in once a month or so to discuss any issues. Anyway good luck with it all

Mickeycharlie · 31/08/2025 19:34

Hi, I am really sorry to read this. This is quite close to my line of work so I can maybe offer you some advice here.

Firstly, ignore the negative comments on here. Irresponsible is widely misunderstood, however it's a growing issue that it getting some media traction. The FCA regulations stipulate that lenders will have systems in place to ensure that lending is appropriate. This is a fact and not a matter of opinion.

Based on what you have shared, this is far more than an irresponsible lending complaint. The fact that they have already upheld irresponsible lending complaints shows a pattern of behaviour and possible systemic issues. The other issues that you have mentioned suggest that their relationship with you is now unfair - this will be frowned upon by the Financial Ombudsman.

I am conscious that I only have your post to go on, however what you have described is a series of quite serious regulatory failings towards a vulnerable customer. If you can provide clear evidence to the Financial Ombudsman then I expect that this will quite easily lead to a decision in your favour.

Feel free to PM me - happy to chat more about this.

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