My other half and I recently split and as a result I'm now homeless with a toddler until our house sells and I'm hopefully able to purchase another. Family have been great and we're staying with them and they've not been charging me anything but asked me to save as much as i can to get back on my feet. I'm currently in receipt of uc just for childcare costs and at present stbxh is paying maintenance for ds but I can't rely on this as I know he'll lose his job soon (due to the reason why we split) and I've been trying to save any and all money he currently gives me in an account for ds because I know that its only a matter of time before he's contributing nothing and when I do get housed things will be very tight so i want to have something set aside that i can use for ds if I'm struggling. He doesn't see ds at all. I work full time and I'm high up in my sector but it's not a well paid sector so my wage is very average. Getting the childcare element of uc entitles me to legal aid. If I had to pay these costs myself I'm guessing I'd probably walk away with nothing as we don't have that much in equity. My solicitor isn't able to give me any indication of how much my legal fees will be which is worrying. Rental fees in this area are so high that it would be more sustainable for me long term to buy as the repayments would be half the cost as rent plus is obviously more security for ds.
My question is, I know I can't have more than 6k in savings and still claim uc, but will they take into account money I've been able to put away for ds? I've managed to save a few thousand between ds savings pot and a house savings pot, I'm not that close to the 6k mark yet but I just want to make sure I'm keeping myself right.
My solicitor is good but expensive, but the reasons we separated are to do with stbxh criminal behaviour around other children so it's really, really important to me that I retain the legal aid as I'm scared that he could end up on benefits and be entitled to it and be in a better legal position than me as a result if I were to lose mine. I'd never afford my current solicitor without the legal aid. Any advice would be helpful it's all been a lot to process.