Long and short of it.
I have consolidated around 27k worth of debt now into one monthly payment.
I spoke with Stepchange who looked at my outgoings, I looked at loan offers and despite having a high amount of debt, I was offered a good interest rate loan. I took the plunge and applied and the loan has just been deposited to my account. I have paid everything off. Reduced my overdraft from 2500k to £500, reduced my credit limit from £3000 to £1000. I have no store card credit, credit cards, car finance, or loans now, I just have the one monthly manageable payment.
With my wages, small amount of universal credit and child maintenance, I should now be able to save, pay my bills, and pay the loan off. I should be debt free in 3-4 years (if I can make overpayments too)
The monthly repayment amount is significantly lower than what I was spending on paying multiple repayments, I can't help but feel anxious though.
It is a large amount of debt, but is more manageable
I got myself into this debt by leaving an abusive relationship and having to start from scratch and DD's father refusing to pay child maintenance for years. It all got on top of me.
It feels good to have paid all the outstanding debts off and now be able to concentrate on becoming debt free. I also know it will take discipline to not spend on overdrafts and credit cards again.
Not sure what advice I am looking for, just want to be reassured I have done the right thing.
I have a good credit score, have never defaulted on repayments and have successfully got myself out of debt before, I guess it feels daunting.