My DH is 55 and is usually great with money.
For most of his career he's been a contractor, with a few short spells working for large corporations. He's got a private pension and a smallish occupational pension. We're mortgage free and have a very healthy amount of savings, the lions share coming from him (though is shared between us)
He's been working for a teeny tiny firm for the last three-ish years. I doesn't pay particularly well (under 50k) but it's low stress and permanent WFH with lots of flexibility.
I asked him a few months ago about the pension with the job. He didn't know. Erm, what? Turns out he'd never seen a payslip. I was gobsmacked. He said his salary went into his account every month so he didn't really sorry about it.
I told him his employer legally had to sign him up to the workplace pension scheme. Initially he said that he didn't want to "rock the boat". He was really pleased when landed this job as his skills are pretty niche and becoming obsolete. I said don't be ridiculous, you're an employee on PAYE, you have rights.
He's finally chased it up, turns out his employer has NOT been paying in but has told DH he's just set it up. So now he's in the process of trying to make sure his employer backdates the payments, DH also needs to pay in. It's just such a mess.
It's a one man show basically so no HR.
I just can't get my head around how my normally so financially sensible DH has ended up on this situation. I'm also worried, only because DH has planted the seed, that he's going to get sacked. Which is ridiculous.
Please tell me this will be ok?!