My ex ended our relationship 5 months ago now but was still (unbearably) staying at the house a few nights a week until about 5 or 6 weeks ago. The bills etc still go out from the joint bank account & I buy food petrol etc with a credit card which also gets paid automatically. Problem is H is now spending money like water & were heading towards going over our 1k overdraft limit this month unless he curbs this. He even refuses to give his new address to council tax, so they wont give me 25% discount.
Im now seriously worried about our future finances & cutting down on spending for food etc. Dd has a huge bill for music lessons which I simply cant pay without sending the account further & further into debt.
I dont currently work, but am looking for something, & we get £39 a month Tax Credits based on H`s salary. Would it be possible for me to now get my Tax Credits re assessed despite the fact that his money is still coming in? Would his contribution towards bills be classed as a maintenance payment & disregarded? Or are we pretty much stuffed?