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Savings for more than one child

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Savingsquestion · 07/02/2025 11:53

Hello

I have a DS and am due DS2 soon. I currently save monthly for DS, but the amount varies depending on how the month has gone. I plan on doing the same for DS2.

They will be gifted this when they turn 21 if they are sensible enough not to waste it but will not know about the savings before then.

If you have more than 1 child you save for, how do you plan on seperating this?

A. In 1 account, which will then be split into however many children you have so they have the same amount gifted to them.
B. They each have their own accounts which will then be given to them regardless of whether they are different amounts.
C. Other. Please let me know!

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Pickandmixusername · 08/02/2025 09:22

UbiquitousObjects · 08/02/2025 09:18

The one thing that baffles me about so many posts about saving for the dc (not just this thread) is the age 18 always mentioned. Giving the dc the money when they're 18 or saving for them until they're 18...as if they'll need a huge chunk of cash at 18 or as if all responsibility and support for them ends at 18.

We have one account for the dc but have zero plans to dip into it at 18 for any of them tbph. Or to stop saving for dc1 as soon as he turns 18.

When I think back, there were times at 18 or 20 I thought I needed money...but now, at 38 I realise I really didn't 😂

It's because if you put money into an account in their name, they are legally entitled to it when they turn 18.

But you're right that they don't need a lot of money at that age assuming you're supporting them through university (if they go). In out case, we will probably give them the option of saving it or using it to pay some of their way through university.

mumonthehill · 08/02/2025 13:03

Ds24 saved half what he had at 18 and has added into it as he was able and now at 24 along with his gf who did the same they have the deposit for their first home. The other half he enjoyed which we had wanted him to do. Ds18 will do the same. Ultimately it is their money and you have to trust them to make good decisions with your support.

kiraric · 08/02/2025 13:24

Savingsquestion · 07/02/2025 23:21

I have it in an ISA at the moment and intend on either opening a new one for the baby or put both childrens money into the one currently open.

The only reason it is in my name is I want to make sure they are responsible with it. Ideally the money would be spent on a deposit, car, travelling etc.

I suppose I meant more fundamentally, setting aside whose name it is in, I don't earmark money separately for the kids. It's all just savings for all of us and we will see when the kids are adults what we have and what we can give them.

I think this is partly just because you don't know what's round the corner - if one of us became disabled or lost their job, we might use savings for that, though primarily our long term S&S are intended for the children

RosaBaby2 · 08/02/2025 13:34

My boys are 10 years apart, one of them got the government child trust fund money, I've always saved monthly for them both in their own accounts and I've worked out how much extra I need to put in to make up the youngests account to the same amount.

Having said that, I will up my youngests payment in a few years when he's the only child at home as his brother has quite a lot to come from his father's side of the family, whilst my youngest does not (different dads)

Rosecoffeecup · 09/02/2025 18:34

I often wonder how best to do this, I'm saving for two nieces. I initially put into two separate accounts but different interest rates, bonuses etc mean they're growing at a different rate so I think I'm going to combine and then just split when the oldest turns 18

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