My lovely father in law is updating his Will currently, and is worried about leaving a chunk of money (potentially, depending on any care home fees etc!) to one of his sons, who is a gambler.
I've had a look around online for advice, but haven't found any solutions yet.
Does my father in law just leave my brother in law his portion of any money, in the knowledge he might well gamble it all away? It is a 'kind' or fair thing to do to a gambler? Should he leave the money to another son to look after on the gamblers behalf? Is that going to cause resentment?
We're not talking millions here, but still possibly a big chunk.
Brother in law has told us of his addiction, and says he has it all in hand and is repaying his debts. (We don't know for sure, obviously). But even a gambler in recovery might relapse if given money.
Can one leave money to someone is some sort of safe trust in this situation? Has anyone here been through this?
Help!