My mum has a family member who has recently made a will leaving things to partner and then my mum and when she passes, my two siblings (excluding me). I feel my mum has deliberately left me out of the will, as the family member would have asked her for her views before finalising the will. This will was only made last week. I am from an Asian culture and my siblings are boys.
She seemed to think this was fine, as I will get a share when she passes instead (she has no will). She is very manipulative and I am just wanting advice on how to not let this hurt me as much as it has or affect the relationship with her or between her and my DC. I feel like she almost wants me to "stay in line" or I will get cut out of her will too when she will likely do this anyway because I am a girl and married and therefore not part of the family.
I have a good job and a lovely house and DC. But the feeling of being excluded and not worthy are making me feel rubbish and like I did when I was a child again.