Long story short. Married. House almost paid off. I have 2 disabled children. H is in the process of dumping us and sailing off into the sunset (or wherever there are no caring responsibilities). we do not get UC or anything due to his income and his savings.
I have inherited recently some money and would be able to by H out of the house. I will need, moving forward UC as I cannot work due to caring responsibilities. Would the use of my savings to pay H out count as a deprivation of assessts?