I have been working (as part of a small team) as a self employed carer for over a year for an elderly lady. Privately funded. Unfortunately she has now passed away and her family have said nobody will get paid until the estate has gone through probate which could take around 5 months. Is this correct!? Nobody had a contract. This has come as a bit of a shock. I would have thought the family who dealt with the wages would have been prepared for this.