I am on UC and PIP. I have also applied for DLA for my daughter but no decision has been reached yet. I meet the affordability criteria for a private rental I have applied for. We do not qualify for a council house-we are way too far down the banding.
We have 11 years of perfect private rental records-we have always paid rent on time (I always pay a week early just to make sure) and have always left the property is good order. We have rented three houses in 11 years, and have been at this property for 3 1/2. I have no CCJ’s, IVA’s etc.
I want to move house for a number reasons.
The first is that my ex-partner is abusive, and we are in the process of filing a non-molestation order against him. He knows where we live and regularly shows up at the property. I know that the non-mol will protect me, but it doesn’t stop him from parking a few roads down and watching us (as he has been known to do). He knows our routines and our school, supermarket, after-school club and park routes, so can easily just sit and wait for us to pass him. He is still allowed contact with dd, so he can punish per for anything he deems to be “bad behaviour” from me (particularly taking out the non-mol). If we move I will be less scared of us being watched, and he is less likely to collect her for contact as he doesn’t want to travel for more than 10 mins. The new place is 40 mins away (pick ups are done from school).
The second is that dd has SEN, and school are struggling to meet her needs. The school that we would be moving to has a space in her year group, and can accommodate her needs. The house is also in catchment for a secondary that can cater for her needs.
The third is simply that I don’t like this house, I never have. We were lucky to have found it when we did as we couldn’t find an affordable rental in the area, but the only thing going for it is that we can afford it-I hate the village (it is a hamlet and very goldfish-bowl like) and I hate the house. We look out on to brick walls 5 feet away from the windows on both sides which makes me feel claustrophobic, we have no upstairs escape in case of a fire as the windows don’t open, and it is really dark-you always have to have overhead lights on, which I find depressing.
The landlord has accepted our application on the basis that I can provide a guarantor that earns more than 40x the rental amount. The only person I know who could guarantor is my Dad. He has said no. I cannot pay 6 months up front, and can’t take out a loan to do so as I’m on benefits. Is there anything I can do? Are we stuck? I feel trapped here now, and really disappointed in myself that I can’t even provide us with a safe place to live. I have offered to have the rent paid directly to the landlord through UC (I am able to do so due to disability) but he said I would still need a guarantor.