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Please help me work out if DS can afford to go to uni next year?

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YoulieBear · 08/08/2024 23:14

Scotland.

DS didn’t do as well as was predicted in his highers. He’s unlikely to get a significant upgrade next year with resits so he’s accepted his uni choices are more limited. Regardless, we’d be in the same situation whichever uni he applied to!

Luckily, he has done well enough this year to get onto his first choice of course even with the average grades achieved so far (is staying in for 6th year though to try and upgrade his results) at a nice uni. He’s only 16, so much too young to be applying for clearing for this year.

I would love your help please to work out if he can afford it though. We live in the arse end of nowhere and commuting to any uni in scotland would be a minimum 3hr trip each way.

So he will need to rent somewhere.

I take home about £2500 a month on a yearly income of about 40k. Single parent, dad never been on the scene, so it’s just me. My own essential outgoings come to just shy of £1900 a month.

SAAS put us in the highest household income bracket so DS will not be entitled to a young person bursary. He will get £5100 student loan only which, spread over 9 months, will be about £565 per month between September and May (he’d stay with me over the summer).

DS has various issues and really doesn’t want to share living spaces. The uni offers a student studio flat for about £800 a month between September and May (shared accommodation only about £100 cheaper so not worth it for the stress it would cause).

He will also need money for phone, contact lenses, tv licence, food and groceries - lets realistically say this will come to a minimum of £400 per month (phone - £20, lenses - £20, Tv licence - £15, groceries and food - £55 per week). So his essential outgoings will be at a minimum of £1200 per month.

I can afford at the most to give him £500 a month (though this will really stretch my own finances). So that’s say a monthly income for him of £1065 with my contribution and his loan. He is keen to get a part time job to make up the shortfall and pay for extras like socialising and clothes etc.

This sounds very tight but is it doable? I struggle to see how SAAS label our household as high income. I really thought he’d be entitled to a bigger loan.

Has anyone with similar finances been in this situation? I would love some reassurance and tips!

OP posts:
Waterbirdbathblue · 09/08/2024 16:15

The Ops comment that "he doesn't socialise much"

Hopefully this will change once at uni !

So
Xxxxxx money on socialising
X on food
Agreed no need for a TV !

PS
You do not need a TV licence to listen to any radio program, buy a radio

Babbahabba · 09/08/2024 16:23

What degree is he going to do? What are the career prospects? Has he considered his future? Once it didn't matter but with the huge costs/debts involved nowadays I think young people have to really consider the future value of doing a degree.

Are there other training options/apprenticeships he could look into?

Gettingbysomehow · 09/08/2024 16:30

My DS got a Saturday job as did I and worked all the way through the 3 years and rented a room in someone's house through rooms to rent £300 a month.
We economised to the max, shopped at £ stores.
We couldn't afford to be picky.
£800 is a huge sum to find every week.

Gettingbysomehow · 09/08/2024 16:31

He'll need to get hiday jobs too.

JT69 · 09/08/2024 17:22

DeliciousApples · 09/08/2024 08:59

What's the household income OP? Just wondering if anyone in here would know from looking at that if you've been placed in the right bracket?

That was my thought - a friend of mine earns more than OP and her son got the full maintenance loan (12k if not more) because she is a lone parent.

Nat6999 · 10/08/2024 03:44

Have you got a Greggs nearby? If so he needs to look for them recruiting, my neice is 16 & earning over £10 an hour. Definitely check if he is eligible for any bursaries, my ds starts university in England in September & will be getting over £6k in bursaries on top of his maintenance loan.

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