Sorry to bump old thread but things changed slightly
I will be getting divorced - my choice
so I now need my pension to go to my child not dh or ex dh to be
my pension is still small
I know in divorcee usually the woman claims 1/2 of man’s pension
does it have to work other way
will dh have a claim to mine ? Tho it’s tiny - tbh unless win pb big it’s not going to be massive sadly or if get inheritance - tho again that’s not set in stone
dh did work all his life. No personal/private pension so will only get the government one and also depends what he has paid via ni as self employed as well like me to how much he gets via government
he’s now not working - but another story lol
so can he claim off mine - even tho it’s tiny - or as he worked all his life no need
usuually I think - tho correct me if wrong - females claim their husbands pension as they gave up work /part time to look after kids - this isn’t the issue with us
he had a choice to work. He did for 30yrs or so
He had a choice to do a private pension like me. Just didn’t
obv I want any of my pension money etx to go to my daughter
also inheritance. If any - will dh have a claim to anything I get via my dad - if I get anything in the years to come
people talk about a financial agreement /when divorcing - how do I stop ex dh to be from getting anything / as again I want it to go to my daughter
for all I know it may go to her anyway and skip me - who knows
sorry so long