Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Money matters

Find financial and money-saving discussions including debt and pension chat on our Money forum. If you're looking for ways to make your money to go further, sign up to our Moneysaver emails here.

kids savings - how much?

31 replies

listlessone · 11/01/2024 16:44

Hi,

Bit of a cheeky one. Do your kids have savings and if so, how much? I am worried that we have left it too late. DS is 13 but only has £2900 saved.

OP posts:
pinksheetss · 11/01/2024 16:45

DD just turned two, she has just over £600 I think
Do plan to continue adding

TheCompactPussycat · 11/01/2024 16:47

Surely this will vary enormously from family to family?

Mine both have substantial savings. They also no longer have any grandparents (i.e. they have received an inheritance).

LubaLuca · 11/01/2024 16:47

What are the plans for the savings? Is he supposed to be able to do something specific with the money at a certain time? Do you have savings for him separate from his own money? Hard to say if he doesn't have enough without a bit more info.

Grinchinlaws · 11/01/2024 16:48

I’ve been saving for the kids since birth and increasing the amounts over time. They have savings in their own name and some of our family savings are also earmarked for them.

It’s never too late though!

GooglyPop17 · 11/01/2024 16:49

Primary age, £3500-4500

Overthebow · 11/01/2024 16:50

my oldest dc is 3 and has around £1200 in her name and I have a savings account in my name that we’ve ear marked for our DC with a few £k in it currently that will be for house deposits when older. Aiming to keep adding to both.

NotYourHolidayDick · 11/01/2024 16:51

17, 15 and 8. Absolutely fuck all. Maybe 20p in loose change.

Patchworksack · 11/01/2024 16:54

What are you hoping to cover? For us it’s a substantial contribution towards cost of university, for others it might be driving lessons/first car, contribution towards first home. Obviously it massively depends on family finances too.

Zampa · 11/01/2024 16:58

It really depends on your circumstances and what's right for your family. Don't compare yourself to others.

Do you want to pay tuition fees, save a housing deposit, contribute towards a wedding?

Work out what you want to achieve and what's affordable and who whether saving for your children is better than clearing down your own debt (for example mortgage).

PuttingDownRoots · 11/01/2024 17:02

Grandparents and us usually pay a small amount monthly into their accounts.

However both have expensive school and Scout trips this year so its been diverted to that instead.

RockahulaRocks · 11/01/2024 17:23

Yes, saving into a S&S ISA for university costs, DD is 3.5 and also has savings in premium bonds from FIL, and a JISA. About £10.5k in total across the board.

But we’re lucky to have a decent household income and she’s an only child so there’s no second set of nursery fees etc to cover - silver lining of not being able to have a second child I guess.

Wrapunzel · 11/01/2024 19:34

I pay £25 each month into my kids' accounts (S&S ISAs) but I don't want them accessing a large amount when they're 18.
I've started SIPPs for them this year, I'll be gone by the time they can access them (older mum!) but compound interest means that £10k over the next ten years is £70k at age 60 with 4% growth.
Mine also have premium bonds for birthday money.

Marmut · 11/01/2024 19:41

About 14k in a junior cash isa. We transfer monthly as soon as we get paid sjnce she was born and treat it as a bill. We increase the amount annually by 5%. We only have one 8 year old.

alwaysmovingforwards · 11/01/2024 19:45

Left it too late for what??

Some kids will never be given a penny.
Others will have a £xm trust fund before they're even born.
Many will have something in between.

menopausalmare · 11/01/2024 19:45

We're overpaying the mortgage instead so we can give them a decent monthly allowance to support their adult education.

isthewashingdryyet · 11/01/2024 19:46

Be careful how much your child will be able to access on their 18th birthday. It will be their money to spend as they wish.
holidays in the sun and designer clothes are very tempting at that age, and you cannot stop them as it is their money.

keep some in your name, so you can give it to them for Uni, or a car, or for a house deposit

Shmithecat2 · 11/01/2024 19:48

Ds (8yo) has approx £30k in savings and bonds. He's an only, we have a good household income, and generous grandparents.

Marrongrass · 11/01/2024 19:52

We have about £16,000 for ours, but I do worry, because it's accessible at age 18 and all my friends who had money at that age wasted it on nonsense (cars they crashed, going out drinking, etc.).

gettingolderbutcooler · 11/01/2024 21:08

Kids (14) have about £35k each so far.

wasanneofcleves · 11/01/2024 21:17

We put £50 a month into each of ours savings accounts. Started pretty much when they were born/a few months old. So on a normal year they will have £600 each. So x18 will be about £11k. Other family members put a bit of money in too.

WillBeatJanuaryBlues · 11/01/2024 21:40

Small few grand inheritance into stocks into stocks and shares junior isa.. Grown by 27% so far now stocks are moving again.

Also much smaller amount into cash isa on low 4%rate for immediate spends.

Trying to drum in financial information now so it will be second nature when they get to 18. I worry more about other people than them.
It will be presented at money for x and money for z.

I'm teaching them about delayed gratification, save alot spend and enjoy x..

WillBeatJanuaryBlues · 11/01/2024 21:42

@Marrongrass

I know some who also went mad age 18 but that was surprise money and they had zero training for it or prospects.
Dc who are prepared and learned about money and investment and have jobs and a positive future won't trash their capital.

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 11/01/2024 21:44

No real savings, kids are 7 and 2. We spend the money on them now instead so trips out, holidays etc. Will probably start saving something when they get a bit older and don't want to go to the zoo with us anymore!

PuttingDownRoots · 11/01/2024 21:54

I got £15k when I turned 18... fortunately my parents had prepared me so it went on support at University with some left towards a house deposit.

We are doing the same...DDs are 10 and 12 and see their statements each year so hopefully they won't waste it.

Papillon23 · 11/01/2024 22:01

PuttingDownRoots · 11/01/2024 21:54

I got £15k when I turned 18... fortunately my parents had prepared me so it went on support at University with some left towards a house deposit.

We are doing the same...DDs are 10 and 12 and see their statements each year so hopefully they won't waste it.

I was in a similar position: I had had my own savings from a young age - I looked after my own savings passbook from the age of 8, switched it to a current account with a debit card at the age of 12 of my own accord, and managed my savings fully from then on - I don't think my parents even got the statements.

I didn't spend my savings at all really, even the ones I had at age 8 - I used to add in pocket money and birthday money and spend that.

So by the time my grandparents came to give me some money for my 18th, they knew I would be sensible. (So sensible in fact that I asked them to split the gift over two years to make the most of my ISA allowance!)

It is worth being aware of, you obviously can't be certain that any amount of preparation and education will ensure that but I honestly couldn't imagine using the money for that when I knew if I put it away and added to it it would give me a house deposit.