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Have I seriously messed up DDs UC claim with savings - what to do?

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CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 22:08

Young adult DD is having to make a first UC claim because of health issues. When they were children by making sacrifices I had gradually squirrelled some money away for the future for her and her sibling, including birthday gift money and money from a grandparent (now deceased) but I had kept it quiet so that it wasn't pestered or frittered away. It was meant for university, a small safety net and similar important things for both of them if I'm not here.

DD has been asked about savings in her UC application and so has asked me if there is anything to declare. I've looked out the paperwork for the first time in years and I think I've really messed things up for her claim. There is much more in her savings account than in her sibling's savings account, when it should be equal. I remember mislaying her sibling's building society passbook, and so putting the money into DD's, intending to transfer it over in the future to make equal amounts in each. I obviously didn't get around to doing this! I feel such a fool and could kick myself.

There is around 11k in the account in DD's name and under 3k in her sibling's. This obviously isn't what I intended at all - about 4k in DD's name belongs to her sibling. I can't afford to make this right myself, so I need to transfer that money over. If DD wasn't about to make a UC claim that is exactly what I would do to make things fair and equal.

How do I deal with this correctly? If the money stays in DD's account she will have about £90 a month deducted from her UC payment if I've got my sums right from googling, which she can't afford, and when it's not actually her money. If I transfer it out I'm concerned she will get into trouble with UC. Can anyone help please before she puts the claim in and I do anything?

OP posts:
Prometheus · 05/01/2024 22:45

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 05/01/2024 22:33

The issue is she does have 11k. That’s what’s in her name. You can’t take 4K of it and give it to her sibling now.

Whilst yours might be an honest error, they won’t allow it because obviously everyone would just transfer savings out if they could.

Unfortunately she’ll have to use the savings to top up her UC until she’s under the 6k lower limit.

Exactly. Legally she has £11k in savings. Doesn’t matter if you made a mistake 10 years ago. The bank account in her name has £11k in it. Otherwise people with £50k in savings could just say ‘oh ignore that cash windfall, that money really belongs to my xyz’

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 22:45

LauderSyme · 05/01/2024 22:43

@jollywhite you're an advocate for the race to the shitty bottom I see.

Seems so

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 22:47

LauderSyme · 05/01/2024 22:45

@jollywhite if you "certainly can't apply for benefits" it's because according to the means test you don't need them. Leave alone the people who do.

This.

Decimate · 05/01/2024 22:48

A huge amount of working people claim benefits. @jollywhite Why should they not be allowed savings? You sound bitter and unpleasant.

Marrongrass · 05/01/2024 22:49

jollywhite · 05/01/2024 22:39

I never understand these theads. If you have enough money that you're able to even have savings, you don't need benefits.

Even people in need of benefits are allowed some savings and that is how it should be.

That's just bullshit. The vast majority of working people are jst about managing and can't put money away for savings. If you've £16k in savings you absolutely shouldnt be entitled to anything.
Use your bloody savings! That's what they're for surely, a rainy day?! That's what we have to do, and our savings are decimated. I certainly can't apply for benefits, it's just tough shit.

That's utter nonsense. If you are in a position to need benefits, you can apply for them and you can have savings. Many, many people worked and fought and continue to work and fight very hard to ensure we have these rights and to create a better society for all of us. Thanks to them we have a safety net, a social security system and allow disabled people to save some money so they can have a new cooker when they need one or a holiday.

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 22:49

Decimate · 05/01/2024 22:48

A huge amount of working people claim benefits. @jollywhite Why should they not be allowed savings? You sound bitter and unpleasant.

I have worked with and supported many who do. Sadly there are always some who make these comments.

LauderSyme · 05/01/2024 22:51

"Doesn’t matter if you made a mistake 10 years ago."

It might matter if you explain it to the DWP with proof. I am not promising OP that if she does this her dd will get the full award. But UC assessors are people too and occasionally do have the potential to accept a genuine and nuanced case!

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 22:52

LauderSyme · 05/01/2024 22:51

"Doesn’t matter if you made a mistake 10 years ago."

It might matter if you explain it to the DWP with proof. I am not promising OP that if she does this her dd will get the full award. But UC assessors are people too and occasionally do have the potential to accept a genuine and nuanced case!

I agree with this- it is definitely worth presenting all the information OP

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 22:55

It seems one or two posters mistakenly think they are posting on a thread in AIBU and are taking the opportunity to do some unwarranted bashing. This is Money Matters, and I posted here for reasoned and informed help and advice. Thank you to mostly everyone else.

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YetMoreNewBeginnings · 05/01/2024 22:57

Get proper advice @CatsOverheating before your daughter does anything with the money.

In 12 years volunteering with CAB specialising in assisting with benefit claims I’ve never once seen the DWP discard an amount in such a situation. The money is in her name, has been in her name for years and moving it right at the point of a claim will be seen as highly suspicious.

You need a plan for what happens when/if your daughter is treated as having the full amount in terms of what you as a family will expect her to do with the money.

Galliano · 05/01/2024 22:59

Is the money actually in an account in an adult daughter's name? Maybe not if you'd be in a position to transfer it? If it's held in your name then I don't think DD would have to declare it.

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 22:59

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 22:55

It seems one or two posters mistakenly think they are posting on a thread in AIBU and are taking the opportunity to do some unwarranted bashing. This is Money Matters, and I posted here for reasoned and informed help and advice. Thank you to mostly everyone else.

Well said OP. It is a shame some of those have popped up.

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 22:59

I do appreciate the car idea. Neither of them drive and she does want to learn. It would be so useful on many levels, including future education and job prospects. She hasn't yet had the time and energy because of other pressures, and we've been put off by all the delays after lockdown. I'm not sure this is the right time for her though. Based on Catsknowbest's advice, I'm also not sure we're up to the hassle at the moment of dealing with suspicion. It's difficult.

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skysmumm · 05/01/2024 23:01

This might stupid but could she buy gold with the money and put that away?

mariahcarey35 · 05/01/2024 23:01

OP I fail to understand what the problem is. You are worried about your daughter being denied £90 a month, while she has 7K set in a bank account? Maybe you planned bigger and better things for it, instead of a rainy day, and I'm sorry the latter has happened.
But why can't you just use the savings?
Or make the money up yourselves?

Your aim here should be really to prevent any suspicion of fraud as that could lead to greater punishment, in which case @LauderSyme's suggestion of writing a letter and open declaration is good. But still you cannot guarantee them awarding the full amount.

successismyonlymotherfuckingoptionfailuresnot · 05/01/2024 23:02

@CatsOverheating please don't read any more or ask this question on here.

There are a large number of completely inaccurate and factually incorrect responses. People who don't have a clue what they're talking about stating their opinions as fact.

Contact the money advice service (previously Citizens advice service) and get some proper advice. I wouldn't Google either as you'll find such conflicting information. Best of luck

mariahcarey35 · 05/01/2024 23:03

Also OP have you tried contacting a benefits advice charity?

https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/links-organisations-giving-advice-benefits-care-and-debt

turn2us is another one.
Have you contacted a charity related to you daughter's illness which might also provide advice

UggyPow · 05/01/2024 23:03

@CatsOverheating
The post by @LauderSyme explains your best course of action. Explain where the money came from & divide equally between them then provide both statements & accompanying letter.
The only other thing you can do is if you have paid for things yourself for your daughter & her needs - you can remove those amounts from your daughter's savings. You will have to provide the invoices to UC but this is also legitimate.
I know someone who had been funding physio for their 24 year old & paying for private assessments as no one explained how the system works, they just got told they were not entitled to any assistance. By declaring the invoices they got their adult child's savings below £6k & the adult child now receives UC - which as an adult they are entitled to in their own right.
In this instance they want to help their child & the UC now pays for these things I stead of the parents
If your daughter lives at home though you might not get as much as you think - my son is 17 (so might be different) & not able to work, can't cope with college/education & he doesn't get much but we are still going through the LCW part of the process which might mean an increase

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 23:03

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 22:59

I do appreciate the car idea. Neither of them drive and she does want to learn. It would be so useful on many levels, including future education and job prospects. She hasn't yet had the time and energy because of other pressures, and we've been put off by all the delays after lockdown. I'm not sure this is the right time for her though. Based on Catsknowbest's advice, I'm also not sure we're up to the hassle at the moment of dealing with suspicion. It's difficult.

It is difficult. And I genuinely am just giving my input based on a lot of professional experience, as have some of the other posters. I also know from that experience that these situations do genuinely arise. Also OP I think someone mentioned PIP and this is something maybe you could look at soon, depending on your DDs needs?

Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 23:05

successismyonlymotherfuckingoptionfailuresnot · 05/01/2024 23:02

@CatsOverheating please don't read any more or ask this question on here.

There are a large number of completely inaccurate and factually incorrect responses. People who don't have a clue what they're talking about stating their opinions as fact.

Contact the money advice service (previously Citizens advice service) and get some proper advice. I wouldn't Google either as you'll find such conflicting information. Best of luck

Citizens Advice is still Citizens Advice

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 23:08

Galliano · 05/01/2024 22:59

Is the money actually in an account in an adult daughter's name? Maybe not if you'd be in a position to transfer it? If it's held in your name then I don't think DD would have to declare it.

I've just had a look. I opened the accounts with them as the beneficiaries and with me as the trustee. It looks like this remains the case until they are 21. I assume I am able to transfer it still in that trustee role.

OP posts:
Catsknowbest · 05/01/2024 23:09

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 23:08

I've just had a look. I opened the accounts with them as the beneficiaries and with me as the trustee. It looks like this remains the case until they are 21. I assume I am able to transfer it still in that trustee role.

This could be important

Silvers11 · 05/01/2024 23:11

Does she need to send the evidence of her savings right now? If not I would suggest that she tells them she has £7000, or exactly what her share would be. Then, I would get her to withdraw the whole lot from her savings account, open a new account for her £7k and pay the £4k into her sisters account. If they want to see the passbook or whatever, then she can explain that you, her Mum was saving it for her and has now given it to her to look after herself?

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 05/01/2024 23:12

CatsOverheating · 05/01/2024 23:08

I've just had a look. I opened the accounts with them as the beneficiaries and with me as the trustee. It looks like this remains the case until they are 21. I assume I am able to transfer it still in that trustee role.

If your DD is under 21 and you are still in control of the money then you need to get proper advice on whose money it legally is.

Both for your DDs sake and yours.

It might be that you can transfer it as it’s yours legally or up to you what happens to it. But equally depending on the set up you might have to act in her best interest as trustee - and then there could be issues if the money is seen as deprivation.

Please get yourself proper advice from someone who can see all the ins and outs of the account and who’ll be able to guide you specifically.

Dontfuckingsaycheese · 05/01/2024 23:12

if it’s money you’re squirrelling away on their behalf but they have no knowledge or access I’d just keep it that way and not treat it as theirs or declare it.

My mum has about £11K squirrelled away for my son. It’s in his name but he has no knowledge. He claimed UC a while ago. It never even occurred to me that technically he should have declared it and I used to work for DWP!