My DP (63) and me (64) have been together for 19 years and jointly (50:50) own our own home outright. DP was a teacher for 21 years from 1982 to 2003. He left teaching in 2003 and started his own business, which unfortunately went bust after the 2008 crash.
We've been talking about retirement for the last five years. I have, in the last 20 years, worked really hard to ensure I have a decent pension on top of the full State pension. I've always been clear that I want the first ten years of our retirement, while we're still fit and active, to involve a lot of travel and some adventures. For various reasons I missed out on the travelling opportunities that lots of my contemporaries enjoyed and I want to catch up. My partner's teaching pension has always been factored into our calculations. He's used online calculators that indicate that his pension should be in the region of £12+k pa, with a £35+k lump sum. Combined with the pension he's accrued since 2009, and his savings, it was looking as if we should be able to retire and splash out next year.
BUT... before Christmas he contacted the teachers pension scheme for precise details — and they reminded him that he'd apparently taken his entire pension fund when he left teaching in 2003. He now says that he thought he'd taken some of it to start the business that went bust in 2008, but not everything. Were you, 20 years ago, able to take everything from a teaching pension fund and walk away with it?