I just had to sign off the inheritance tax on an estate, the value of the possessions weren’t taken into account from memory.
I’ve taken the 2 things I wanted out of the house (no value whatsoever, just sentimental, a photo of my relative and a Christmas bauble), everyone else in the family will be invited to come and take what they want on a specific date.
After that, there are 2 local charities that were really involved in their life in the later years and I’ve asked if they want to come and take anything. There are new sofas, new furniture, antique furniture etc but family don’t want any of it as they all have their own.
Whatever’s left will be down to a house clearance company. Second hand furniture apparently doesn’t have much value, even really good well made old stuff. Either way, I don’t have the patience to deal with it even if it did.
Fortunately it’s not a cluttered hoardy house so it won’t take long.
Honestly, I’d take anything of sentimental value that you know you can house and anything else I’d just get someone in. I know you said you don’t want to but realistically how long do you want to spend going through things one by one and what are you going to do with it all? The money has been spent on these things, your parents had their enjoyment out of them, don’t let it all pile up on top of you out of a sense of guilt.
sorry for your loss, it’s a really hard and in many cases cruel thing to be left to deal with 💐