I’m in a very unhappy relationship of ten years- we have two small children. We live in South London in rented accommodation. I feel trapped financially and unable to leave. I earn £35,000 and work full time. Rented accommodation in this area for a 2 bed starts at around 2k per month which is only slightly less than my earnings after tax and other deductions. I know that I could move to a cheaper area outside London but we have roots here, kids go to school, have lived in the area for years etc and hoping my soon to be ex and I can live close to each other to make things easier for the kids.
I think I would be entitled to universal credit but what I can’t work out is how to actually leave. I don’t think I’d be able to claim UC until I’m in the rented accommodation but I won’t be able to afford the rented flat until I have the UC. Not sure how much child maintenance I’d be able to claim as partner is between jobs although think I’d get something.
Any advice would be appreciated. Feeling trapped.
Thank you