This might sound bad apologies if it does!
I am on a fairly low wage (only earning 12k a year part time), my husbands wage is £55k. Obviously appreciate this sounds high but in a current economy when it's covering a family of 4 it really doesn't feel that way. I had never bothered claiming child benefit as I knew I'd have to pay it back and we didn't want the faff of the tax return. This year things got tighter than ever so we decided to claim and just deal with the return. I claimed and got £457 from it being backdated however much they do that and then 2 weeks later realised it factors in bonuses so my husband was in fact on £60k and we'd have to pay all of it back so I phoned them and stopped the payments and asked to transfer it straight back and they said I couldn't.
Made a mental note to mention it to dh to do a tax return and pay the lot back but forgot, this was all back in like March. I mentioned it to him the other day as I still have all the money they paid me sat in a Monzo pot waiting to be paid back. He's never registered for self assessment and doesn't have the foggiest how to do it. Of course we are both adults and can figure it out between us.
I'm just wondering really if I can wait for them to approach me and plead ignorance that we didn't understand. I have a loan with £954 on it with astronomical interest and really want to use the money to pay that off and free up some money each month to help us get by. If it's going to be in 1 years time they'd notice then I could of recouped the money by then but I don't know if we need to do a tax return this year or we'll incur charges or anything