My partner and my dd know. They both rent.
DD knows what it took to get there (the idea of having enough savings to pay off a mortgage in your 40's is mind blowing to me!) which was me working insane hours and paying it alone. She is happy for me and knows that although I am now secure, I am in no way "well off", just no longerever being at risk of homelessness.
Partner also rents (we live apart by choice) and is also happy for me and has a plan and savings towards buying his own place as he wants something tangible to leave to his kids. Also is utterly sick of the insecurity of renting.
Neither hold malice or expect anything from me as a result.
Amongst friends, most are vastly better off than me so of those that do have a mortgage its a lot more than mine was. I dont know for sure obviously but they all seem to want to get rid of them if they can and there is a feeling of "Oh I cant wait until that is us" if there is someone who announces that they have done it. Again, no malice. I have only spoken about mine to a couple of close friends. One asked how I did by 50 and I said that I bought a tiny house at 27 and never moved. He said that with hindsight, although he was keen to get up the ladder at the time because he saw the big house etc as an achievement, they would have a LOT more money and security now if they hadnt and could actually have early retirement as a realistic option instead of another 15 years of mortgage payments (which he told me about and they are more than I earn in a month!).
But then there are others I can imagine being very "Oh its alright for some" "Oh I am sure its Pyongs round, its not like she has rent or mortgage to pay!" which is why they are a) not close friends and b) not someone I ever share financial information with even though they VASTLY out earn me.
So I think you have to judge it case by case. I only told people I know I can truly trust, and in one case that included a close family member who would be thrilled for me but would also flap their mouth about it.