i wonder if anyone experience this and can offer some advice.
I am a single parent of 1 and a friend moved in a couple years ago due to covid etc and we eventually got together. Neither of us were aware about the 50k threshold or even heard of self assessment thing. He’s on over 60k and no other benefit except CHB and i overlooked it as benefit because as far as i was aware it wasnt mean tested and everyone got it. I didn’t even know how much he earned then. Only recently as i’m trying to gather all financial information for a mortgage application i come across this and it has been keeping me awake ever since! I know i will have to pay back the CHB since the day he moved in regardless of our situation then but anyone has inclination on how much penalty we would have to pay?? I read that they charge £10 per day for 90 days plus plus?! Which route do i take first, call them up or do self assessment? Doesnt the high earner need to do that?
My partner is very annoyed as we are looking at thousands of penalties and its not even his child (nothing i can do about that!). We are also paying high rate student loan :( i am just stress at the thought of dealing with HMRC tbh. They werent very nice when i had to deal with them years ago.