Hi
I was made redundant a month ago. This was a shock ( the company folded). I hadn't worked there for long so no redundancy pay. I am going into hospital for a major surgery in 3 weeks ( dh private health care covered this - so grateful as I don't have to wait) so we've decided that I won't apply for jobs until it's all sorted. I could be looking at a recovery period of 6 months.
I have been fortunate to have a friend who has offered to employ me when I am back on my feet. The job is similar to the one I had previously in terms of responsibilities and pay. It's not a massively paid job but I willl earn around 28k a year
The problem we have is the 6 month income drop. My dh earns a good salary of 69K but we have relatively high outgoings and I am worried that things are going to be very tight.
DH takes home £3800 but all of our bills living expenses and debts takes most of this. I normally take home £1700 which makes a real difference and makes us fairly comfortable. We have cancelled all non-essential subscriptions etc. We are also prepared to live a very frugal life for 6 months. Kids are on board too. I am just worried that it's not going to work. We only have 1k saved - massively regret not making more of an effort with this.
All of our essentials including priority bills, food, fuel and debt payments come to £3400. This will leave just £400 which wouldn't go very far in an emergency DH thinks it's fine and that we will manage perfectly well. I suppose I feel a bit of guilt that I am the one who won't be earning.
Am I overthinking this?