I'm going to ask for no judgement on my situation, or at least judge without letting me know.
Writing this is horrible enough and actually quite daunting.
After losing my job and facing lots of grief and having a breakdown over covid, my DP and entered IVAs. (Death of parent, grandparent and loss of much wanted pregnancy one after the other.)
Sadly, I can't return to work as one of my children is special needs and often can't attend school etc, I just am completely unemployable for the foreseeable future.
We own our house with a remaining mortgage of 110k and the house is worth just over 255k now.
We have decent equity to buy a cheaper house we've seen, but we need to repay the early repayment fee and mortgage balance, plus solicitors and estate agents etc fees. Which leaves us short for the house we want.
Our insolvency practioner would allow us to take on a debt as we'd be clearing a mortgage, so it makes sense, but I'm unsure where to look for a lender who'd consider loaning to someone with an IVA.
Ironically, prior to 2020, we'd have pretty good credit so it's quite sad writing this really. We're not flashy etc, just fell on tough times. I really appreciate anyone who has advice to help.
Thank you for reading.