hi all. I'm hoping some of you mumsnetters can help me. mine is a long and boring tale but...here goes.
I need to make a claim for universal credit as I have recently got a new job. I am currently on wtc/ctc but I know that this needs to change.
now here is the problem. I currently get around £500 per month from the inland revenue. no housing benefit. when I put my circumstances into the entitled to calculator I am entitled to 0. its because I am named on a mortgage with my ex. the house is classed as an asset.
I went to the citizens advice for some help last week as my circumstances are really more complicated than that. But I think he just went into the back office and used the entitled to checker to be fair and he just parroted the above really.
My ex was/is incredibly abusive, violence is documented in all of the usual places, police, social services, GP, women's aid etc.
I left with our children 8 years ago and moved into rented accommodation, I left everything apart from clothes and toys, when I say clothes I mean the kids stuff, he burnt all of mine (just to give you an idea of what I'm dealing with).
women's aid helped me find a house for us all, sorted out court orders, non mol etc. but couldn't help me with joint debts or the house (no more legal aid). I was advised that it could cost 10k plus to force him to sell the house or buy me out, I had at that point sunk 30k of an inheritance into it, I just wanted that back and I made that clear to him (I definitley did not want to stay there). His solution is for me to just give him the house and forget all about the money that I have personally spent (the 30k doesn't include all of the debt that I have paid off alone).
When I put my details in to the calculator without that house listed I am entitled to over 1000 per month.
Are there any universal credit pros out there who can help me navigate this, I really don't have any access to this asset, I can't live there, I make no income from it, I really cant do anything with it. Other than hope I outlive him.
I feel completely trapped again, almost like the government and their stupid black and white tick box system are helping him to continue to abuse me.
Friends and family are divided in opinion some say just don't put it on the form, others say be honest.
If I apply and get rejected is there an appeals process where i can explain my situation to a person and hopefully get the benefit or is it a case of we said 0 we meant 0.
To be clear he is still abusive, I get death threats sent to me via watsapp every now and again (i have reported to police but they are honestly worse than useless).
I have tried to include everything here but any questions....feel free....
Oh, just to add I never married the bastard, I sometimes wish I had, then we could just divorce and be done.
Thanks in advance.