Feeling very dim and out of control of my finances. Has got to the point that I transfer money out of it into an account for me and an account for DH (for day to day money, for food, petrol etc). Then leave the rest in there for bills. Then remove our one account cards from us.
The hope is that there will actually be money left over in there to try to clear some mortgage, but not sure if I am making any head way at all. Really don't think I am
Though, of course money is not as good as norm. Chritsmas pay had to last 6 weeks and January pay inc a holiday for DH (I am SAHM)
Maybe next month it will all start to work out, but I am just so fed up feeling like we are getting no-where with it all.
I thought the one account was supposed to be easy
Sorry just wanted to moan.
And to know if anyone else out there feels as confused by the one account style.
Don't want to close the account and try to find a new one, it was so stressful cancelling all the direct debits.
Feel bit trapped in a bad mortgage, for us.