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What can we spend his money on?

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IndiganDop · 21/02/2023 21:10

Named changed for this thread. Long term poster.

My son is almost 22. He is clever but severely autistic with very limited social communication skills.

He was awarded high level pip for both care and mobility, backdated to last Summer, and also started on universal credits in October. He has recently had LCWRA assessment and we are awaiting result.

The problem is, the nature of his needs is that he is very non- acquisitive. He isn't interested in clothes or "stuff". He has a pair of shoes and won't buy another pair until these wear out. He goes nowhere. Since he started these payments he has spent about 60 pounds in total; a couple of McDonalds and a computer game. He doesn't want to learn to drive. He doesn't take part in any activities, though this is on his care plan but the care hasn't started yet.

The issue is, he has 5700 in his account now, and I know if he goes above 6k, his benefits will be reduced.

We have just started him paying rent as we have been paying for everything for him (food, clothes etc) He's paying 250 a month as of March. However his money is much higher than this : around 850 a month at present I think. Should we claim back rent? We could start building a savings pot for a flat purchase for example?

Anyone got any suggestions? Recognizing this is a fortunate position to be in.

OP posts:
maryofthevirginkind · 22/02/2023 07:05

Go on holiday? Pay for days out experience days? Refurbish his bedroom?

IndiganDop · 22/02/2023 07:14

Refurbishing his bedroom is a good idea. It needs a repaint. He won't be keen, but it's the only room in the house that hasn't been repainted since we moved here 10 years ago.

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BurntOutGirl · 27/02/2023 22:06

My DS gets the lower rate of PIP. He pays a contribution towards electricity, gas, water and food each month. Pays for his own mobile.

SouthCountryGirl · 28/02/2023 08:11

declutteringmymind · 21/02/2023 22:19

He also needs to pay for his personal items - toothpaste, glasses, haircuts etc.

He'll get help with glasses as he's on UC

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