I moved in with my gf shortly after this came in. We didn’t discuss financial things at that point, i contributed x to the household.
3 years later, i get penalties, fines and backdated repayments and interest because she was claiming CB.
Problem was, I’d just lost my job, had a small amount of saving I could access, they just wanted their pound of flesh to repay for money I’d never had. gf couldn’t help, she was in debt herself so every penny was part of a payment plan, last hangiver of her failed marriage.
At the time, the loss of the job was a major issue, was unexpected. Suddenly having this 6k bill to repay - drove me to drink and then a suicide attenpt.
Dont play games with hmrc. They are the scum of the earth. They denied writing a letter I had from them because I’d specifically asked when I moved in, did it apply to me.
In the end, penalties mounted up - but a friend got a me a job, and I was able to get a loan to pay them their pound of flesh.