Hi, can anybody help me with benefits advice? I wasn't sure which board to post on.
I'm claiming Universal credit & not working currently but for the last few months I've had my work coach say to me 'Why don't you just get signed off for a break?'
I've kept ignoring this as I don't want to be seen as 'giving up'. I havn't worked in a long time & I think, if I did work, then it would get me out a bit, get me meeting more people, little bit of socialising, stop me sitting around feeling low etc.
BUT, I have problems with my feet. I CAN walk. It's hard, but I can. It's very tiring for me & I need to stop often & I'm slow. I walk up & down the stairs sideways, leaning heavily on the wall for support. But I CAN do it.
Because of the foot problems I'm being pushed into work from home roles, so I won't be socialising or meeting people anyway.
I also have double incontinence problems. These are generally managed with pads but sometimes wet/soil through clothes. Need access to a toilet instantly so care/cleaning in the community jobs are out.
My mental health is bad I suppose. I mean, I feel worthless & like I bring nothing to the world but that's just how I feel. I take the job knock backs REALLY badly. I go instantly to my 'bad place' & think 'Well why would they employ me? I'm stupid & worthless anyway'.
I used to walk all over the place with my kids, walking was my 'clear my head' thing too when they were with their dad, but I can barely do it now. I hate it. I feel like I've lost 'me'. I have to get buses everywhere, it costs a fortune & I hate it. I want to be able to walk again. My kids sit at the end of the road waiting for me to catch up, when it was never like that before
I've been on ADs on & off for years. I've just done an anxiety & depression workshop with the jobcentre.
I'm having to do all these courses for my UC which I understand so I'm not just 'claiming free money' but I do find them difficult to do. Staring at the screen (they are all online) gives me a headache. I'm also tired. If I sit still for any length of time I fall asleep.
I don't know weather I should try to get signed off for a bit? How do I even go about it? I'm waiting for a call from the GP today. There's being signed off & then there's claiming PIP which is 2 separate things, isn't it?
Years ago I applied for PIP but my mental health was ignored & I got 2 points for the incontinence & as far as I can tell I wouldn't get any help with mobility so it would be 2 points again.
Sorry that's soooo long!