Hi.
Since my son was born we have saved him money and had intended to hand over the pot on his 21 birthday. It will be 10k. Originally we thought this could be used to buy a car or start a house deposit.
However DS is autistic and unable to work in paid employment at the minute, or for foreseeable - next few years anyway.
We intend to support him to claim benefits as he currently has zero income and lives with us.
I recently found out that the savings would lead to a reduction in any benefits he could claim. Obviously we don't want that.
Can we keep the pot of money and maybe give him a small amount each month instead? Would this enable him to claim all his benefits? It seems wrong that the money we carefully set aside each month for years when we had nothing should be used to reduce what he is entitled to as a disabled person.