My DH and I have been invited to one if my friends weddings. They seem more financially comfortable than we are. I've been on maternity leave so our income has been massively reduced, along with our much wanted extra mouth to feed and the cost of living becoming ridiculous I'm not sure what to do re a gift.
Their wedding isn't going to be held at any expensive venue, it's actually in the barn of her parents and it's a buffet so not a big 3 course meal event. But I understand this doesn't necessarily mean they've done it on the cheap either.
Their card says no gift required but happy for money sort of thing.
I will be going back to work soon but only part time and money is tight.
Would £30 and a £5 keepsake be OK or offensive? We're not old old friends.