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Will I need to pay for care for my divorced parents?

6 replies

MrsDarcey28 · 14/04/2022 12:26

My Parents are divorced and in early 60s.

My Mum lives alone, owns own home outright (200K) and will retire in next couple of years has a small private pension and will get state pension due to all contributing national insurance years paid.

Would Mums Assets be enough to cover care? What happens if cost of care is more than her total wealth?

My dad does not own his home, no private pension, probably no state pension due to low income/out of work periods/not up to date on self assessment tax. I think may have a small amount of savings but not loads (under 23K).

In my Dads case is it my responsibility to pay as he's not up to date with tax and has no assets?

Should I start saving to pay for their care if needed? I have tried to google this but it's really not clear what happens after all assets are gone or someone who doesn't get state pension?

I personally don't think I am or should be responsible to pay or give care but I have no idea how the system works and want to plan for the future so that I do not leave my kids in the same position by spending all my savings on parents care.

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IncompleteSenten · 14/04/2022 12:28

You're in the UK? If so then no.

IncompleteSenten · 14/04/2022 12:30

No assets then state pays

This is assuming your mum doesn't give you her house or money because that's deprivation of assets and they'll come after you

FelicityPike · 14/04/2022 12:32

I have to start by saying I’m in Scotland so I know it’s different here, but I would imagine that youare not legally obliged to pay for the future care of either of your parents.
If you choose to, then that’s a different matter.

ApolloandDaphne · 14/04/2022 12:32

The simple answer is that you will not have to pay for any care they need. If they need care at some point they will be assessed. Your DM's assets will be used and I imagine your DF would have to be fully funded.

What I am perplexed about though is why you are worried about this when your DP are relatively young? I am almost 60 and have not given my care needs a second thought as I am still fit and healthy. My DM is 81 and still living a very independent life in her home. My FIL didn't need a care home until he was 91. Stop worrying about this!

LangClegsInSpace · 14/04/2022 12:35

No, it's not your responsibility.

This is a good place to start:

www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/

LittleMsPerfect · 14/04/2022 12:36

@ApolloandDaphne

I'm a worrier!!

I have also just got i to the habit of regular savings into different pots, So I just wondered if I needed are care savings pot.

My Mum is very healthy, but my Dad is a smoker since age 14.

Thank you all

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