Califrau with all due respect - did you read the initial post?
I am not ignoring this - I do not ignore paying bills, hence repeatedly writing to them and calling them in response to their bloody letters.
I am aware that they can speak to me if my DH gives them permission - he has spoken to them and they insist it has to be in writing - which he has also done THREE times. They speak to me immediately after recieving one of his letters, but then say they need a letter for each conversation.
I have spoken to a supervisor - three times in Decembet and twice this month so far - one time being this morning, each time the person states that the payment is not on their system and it is up to me to prove that I have paid it by methods other than the bank statements
No payment slips & as I have said in my initial post, I made the payment (over the phone) and they have had four copies of the bank statement
I am not exagerating, nor am I a liar - They were calling 6 times each hour for three days (before that it was at least 5 times a day). I agreed to BT changing the number as even BT claim their behaviour is harassment.
I am speaking to someone every other day concerning this issue.
On a rare day off, my DH has spoken to someone with me there giving authorisation for me to deal with the account - they refuse to accept this and asked for further written authorisation.
I do remain calm - I am venting my annoyance on here at the moment. What I am saying is that I cannot "sort it out" if they will not accept the bank statement as proof. I have given them the name of the guy who took the payment as well as the time (down to the minute) that the payment was made (As person who trained debt advice workers I am very anal about keeping specific records of financial transactions)
I do not "lose my rag" nor am I upset- I am bloody perplexed as to what proof they are expecting me to give them.
I am fully aware of what collections people do all day and of the way they are trained having "been there and done that" from their side and as a debt advice trainer. As I said to the two women I spoke to this morning (initial person and supervisor) I am fully aware that it has nothing to do with them personally - but this needs sorting and I would like to know why four requests for the account to be closed have been ignored.
As for the new direct debit, They flatly refuse to set up the direct debit until the account is 'brought up to date' Even though I have paid!!!