I'm trying to help my DM sorting out finances as my DF has now moved to a care home. She's not really got involved in this in the past, but now needs to!
I'll write the basics here, excuse blunt bullet point format but easiest way to get it down.
Ultimately I know we may need advice of some sort - but not sure if that legal, tax or financial!
So, here goes:
- DF, 80, has had a stroke and now in a care home permanently sadly
- DM, 75, good health, lives independently in their home
- DF's care home fees are (just) covered by his work pension and state pension
- DM has no pension, but will get 50% of DF's work pension if he passes first (for which we are making a massive assumption given health)
- assets = house £450k, various bank accounts £900k = £1,350,000 currently
- DM's monthly outgoings are c£1200pm. For now she will need to fund herself via cash in the bank
Concern from her (and me and DSis) is potential future IHT liability. Currently, if we were to lose both of them my understanding is IHT would be £1,350,000-£650,000 IHT allowance (one lot of £325k passing to the other) = £700k*40% tax = £280k tax bill.
She is thinking of making us a substantial cash gift of £200-£250k each. In return we would put half each aside for any future care home fees for mum, or other contingencies.
As we understand it, there is a 7 year rule. So if she gifts us - including a written statement it's a gift (does this have to be witnessed?) - this money now, if she is still here in 7 years, there's no IHT due, and if sooner, it's on a sliding scale? Is it as 'simple' as that?
I hate having to have these conversations, with her, but she's quite pragmatic and wants to do the right thing as she describes it!
PS. we have medical and financial LPA's in place already should they be needed. DF and DM to each other, and me and DSis to both parents.
Many thanks in advance.