I have 3 year old and yes I think you’re supposed to spend 16 hours (but not in school holidays when you don’t have childcare).
Although I’m confused about what I’m actually supposed to be doing, whether I can just do work prep activities or actually have to look for work?
I’m not work-shy either but tbh my life is a mess at the moment. My relationship only broke down 6 months ago under truly tragic circumstances. I’m struggling just to come to terms with everything and keep on top of everyday things let alone look for work and feel like I need a bit more time to get things sorted. I need to do the freedom project for example, need counselling, one of my children needs SEN diagnosis which I really need to chase up.
My little one luckily gets his full 15 hours but I have zero outside support (and ex doesn’t see the kids often due to his situation). I spend at least an hour a week getting him to preschool so that brings it down to 14 hours and I could really do with some of that 15 hours for cleaning etc. The house is a mess. I have no evening time as my youngest doesn’t sleep till late and I usually just go to bed with him. It’s always been that way, I think he has ADHD so getting anything done when he’s at home can be tricky.
So I’m supposed to find two extra hours than I actually have to make it up to 16 🤷🏻♀️
I have looked and found some fab jobs to apply for which in an ideal world I’d love to do but when I sat down and really thought about it I realised the extra take-home work wouldn’t work for me just yet as I have no free time - so I didn’t apply 😒.
I really wish I wasn’t in this situation and could just work full-time with no other responsibilities. For this reason alone, I massively regret having my youngest, although he is lovely but what’s done is done and there’s not much I can change about that now.
It’s also frustrating that they’re telling me to spend 16 hours actually looking for work yet other posters say they haven’t even been asked. This doesn’t seem very fair. Maybe that’s the difference between the old system and the new Universal Credit.
I think my work coach is new to the job and tbh doesn’t seem to know what she’s doing. She only told me I was supposed to log work related activity a few weeks ago. I’ve don’e quite a few searches etc but none of them are logged because I didn’t know I was supposed to log it. I suppose I can log it now but it’ll look like I’m just making it up.