My son gets dla, a relative was claiming carers allowance for him but since then we’ve had a falling out and I don’t speak to them at all anymore so they are obviously no longer caring for my son, I wouldn’t be surprised if they were still claiming the carers allowance though as I doubt they would have called up to cancel it, how can I find out if they are claiming and get the claim closed if they are? Last time I tried to call carers allowance they wouldn’t speak to me about the claim only the person who is claiming they will speak to, even though he is my son 😕 is there anything I can do?