DP passed away when I was a child. I’m the only dependent and DP wasn’t in a relationship ( so no spouse etc) and no will left.
DGPs have “ hidden” /kept/stashed DP ashes but have never told me where ? I’ve tried to find out if they’ve been interred at local cemeteries etc but no joy. All family shut me down when , as an adult , I ask where they are.
Pension: so DP died young but paid into pensions.
How do I find out if DGPs are claiming the pension and not me? Am I not the next-of-kin? Or do parents of deceased override me?
Has anyone done this before ? I have basically no information on this: DP passed nearly 30 years ago
DGPs paid other surviving siblings a few thousand each, a few years ago - surviving parent thinks that this may have been DPs pension - as this would have been around the right age for it?
( I’ve received nothing from DGPs over the years,despite having a good relationship- or so I thought )