She has started school for an hour or so per day and is doing really well on the whole but she needs 1:1 help with lots of tasks and has to be carefully supervised in the early years classroom due to general 4 year old clumsiness/enthusiasm which puts her at risk of head injury through them falling on her/knocking into her etc.
She is unable to walk unassisted and has lost most function of her right arm (she is left handed). School are applying for high needs funding for her so that they can supply the help she needs (which I am currently supplying). This won't come in until January at the earliest.
We have almost 2yo twins at home who are looked after by my husband while I am at school in the mornings. He has arranged to work flexibly for now but he can't sustain this level of part time working until January and beyond, especially as he is regularly off for childcare while I take DD to various appointments and physio etc. plus he had a lot of time off when she was in hospital.
Really, we need to send the twins to a childcare setting for the mornings until school funding kicks in but we don't have the finances to do so. Am I able to claim anything to put towards this along the lines of carers allowance or similar?