Hi
I've been reading these type of posts on Mumsnet since 2014 and they are so good and really helped me, but also remember it is relative to being single, a couple, cost of of your rent/mortgage and transport, benefits, kids and no kids. Look at my life numbers below and please be encouraged!!! I started reading these posts on Mumsnet at time when I had £3 left over every month with my DD and partner.
As a previous single person (no kids at the time or partner)
Income £1000
Bills £50 (no bills only contributed to parents)
Remaining £950
When I and my partner moved in together
Total income £2000
Bills
Rent £660 (Inc ctax, water and TV license)
Phones £40, transport £160, food £300, netflix £5.99, Now TV £9.99, charity monthly £200+
Total outgoings: £1375.98
Remaining: £624.02
When we had our first child (I worked part time, partner was full time parent) this was just 6 years ago!
Total Income after tax (Inc benefits)
=£2149.11
Bills
Ctax £150, rent £1150, phones £40, internet £30, transport £150, gas & electric £90 water & sewerage £30 + food £350 + netflix £5.99 Now £9.99 TV, Debt £40 total, monthly charity £100
Total outgoings £2145.98
Remaining = £3.11
Now we've had our second child who is of school age.
Income after tax (no benefits, partner and I work part time)
Total Income =£3615
Bills
Ctax £112, mortgage £243, phones £20, internet £26, transport £0, gas & electric £90 + food £350 + netflix £5.99 Now £9.99 TV, Debt £0 total
Total outgoings £856.98
Remaining £2758.02
It's important to note what's mainly driving this is my outgoings have fallen due to not living in London anymore (2 bed flat was £1150 and 3 bed house is now £243!) both changing careers to a better paying industry, working from home, partner also working and us not needing childcare. It is very relative! Good luck ❤️