To be honest I don't blame you for claiming.
However I am glad a PP has said it too. I read this thread yesterday and stopped myself from commenting as I didn't want to come across bitter but I feel this is terribly unfair on parents who can't afford things. (Not aimed at you OP, just in general).
I am a single parent and a one income household. That income being £13k a year. I get tax credits. Because I am mortgaged UC works out at a massive financial loss for me so I chose to stay on TC. However even despite my low income my child is not eligible for FSM etc. All because I get working tax credits.
I see threads on here all the time about UC and how some working claimants in a couple are awarded more than me and it never makes sense. Their positions are better than mine but somehow get awarded more. I struggled all through lockdown because we were eligible for nothing and I kept being told it's because I receive the wrong benefit.
When the time comes for school to be telling me my son needs an iPad it's going to have to be a no! Unless our lives drastically change I dont have the money. I barely get by every month as it is!
It's terribly unfair that children eligible for FSM get them for free when all other pupils parents will have to pay. Alot of parents send their children with packed lunches as they cant afford school meal costs past year 2!
I honestly don't blame you, I think we all would if we were in your position but I feel it's wrong of school to put parents in this position.