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Wills

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Tiddleandplonk · 07/08/2021 17:57

My dear df died some while ago. Am enstranged from step mother due to a combination of factors ( her mean minded narc beheviour ) . I was suprised that i was not contacted by a solicitor at the time.
I also have only a couple of his personal items having been given what she decided to give me.
Does this simply mean that I was not put in my dfs will. ? If so its hard to believe as we were very close . She was quite controling of him.
Is it worth checking his will by ordering a copy. Is it possible i was included and not told or would a solicitor have automatically made contact? I need to resolve this.thanks.

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Badbadbunny · 07/08/2021 19:57

A solicitor may not have been involved - there's no legal requirement for them, and many people do it themselves (i.e. spouse, sibling or elder child etc).

If there was a will, it should have been dealt with via probate and you can obtain a copy of the will and probate to see exactly what it said.

However, they may not have been a will, in which case someone would have to apply for letters of administration.

If all assets (property, bank accounts etc) were in joint names, then they pass to the surviving spouse automatically, so what the will says is irrelevant as that only applies to assets that weren't jointly owned.

If there's nothing registered at the probate office, i.e. no will, then either he didn't make one or it's been lost/ignored/destroyed.

I don't suppose you know which solicitor he'd have used? If so, or if you have any realistic guesses, then you could always contact them to ask if he had made a will with them.

TheFoundations · 13/08/2021 18:27

probatesearch.service.gov.uk/#wills

Costs about £1.89 to get a copy of a will, and about a week if you do it online.

Hope it helps clear things up for you.

Tiddleandplonk · 14/08/2021 22:23

Thankyou

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