Grateful for any advice about what's realistic here with mortgages.
So we have a flat in London we lived in for several years. It's currently got €275k owing on the mortgage and a very similar one just sold for €375. Six months ago we moved to Newcastle for work, we've been renting since then. We've also got a 12 month old baby who is in full time daycare, I've been back from mat leave since June.
We want to buy a home up here. We have consent to let for 12 months so we've currently got the flat rented out. We earn 90k between us, we both work full time.
I was assuming that at the end of the 12 months we would sell the flat, have around 100k deposit and would be able to borrow about 400k and buy a nice big house.
DH is insisting we should keep the flat as an investment, and that we could use equity in it for a deposit and borrow enough to buy a house for around 350k. His family have offered 10k gift towards our deposit but we've no other savings.
I'm VERY doubtful about the numbers. We haven't spoken to a lender yet but is his plan even realistic? Total borrowings of more than 600k on salaries of 90k?
Also, he's currently still on probation in his new role as it's less than 12 months. I'm quite possibly going to have to change jobs soon - I have been working remotely but employer is starting to want us back in the office but it's too far away for me since the move.
DS is convinced it's a huge chance to get ahead with our finances. I don't want to miss an opportunity due to being too cautious but I'm just not sure this will be possible. Any thoughts?