and if so would you mind if i asked you lots of very annoying questions?
basicly i was always the main earner in our relationship and so most of the credit was placed in my name.
when i left i ended up taking our debts with us.
i never really noticed just how much we had dotted all over teh place as when i was working it was all perfectly managable.
however now i have left and no longer working i have sorted through it all and i am just over £16k in debt.
I have been useing a debt managment company for the past 6 months but the minute amount i can pay them each month is not even covering the charges i am still having added each month.
I applied for an IVA but have been refused because i am on benefits.
bankruptcy is pretty much all thats left to me.
i have been reading a fair amount and spoken to a company but i want to know what its like from someone who has been through it. what are the positives and negatives.
tyia