Hello all. Great thread, thank you for starting it.
I 'retired' at 50 (now 55). I was able to do so because:
a) I had a solid income stream from a rental property in zone 2, owned outright - this brings in an annual income not far off the UK median
b) I have a good pension (civil service) which kicks in at 60 - I started this at 23, very good decision.
c) I have one child
d) I have a very supportive husband, 5 years younger than me, with four times my income, and he's got my back.
e) although we still have a mortgage, the LTV is small and the monthly repayments are a low percentage of our income. We make overpayments and my goal (DH is more relaxed about this) is to get shot of it in 4 years.
I make my income and our joint account go a long way. My costs are still quite high, because DS is still in education and I will pay his rent and contribute towards his living costs while he's still getting established. I've stripped down a lot of expenditure, but I do love beautiful interiors and I am spending (carefully, but many people would say unnecessarily) on the house. I want to make this one really lovely and properly FINISH it! - I've not managed/wanted to do this before with previous homes, and this is important to me.
Despite my moniker, I have spent pretty freely over the years - education, nice holidays, cultural stuff, reinvesting in the rental property, time out of the workplace to do different things - which I am happy about. It's important to bank good experiences, especially as a family. I would not have stopped working if my income couldn't continue to support these personal goals. I have stripped out a lot of expenditure, watch my budgets like a hawk, and every pound has it's job.
I have built up a modest (about a year's income equivalent) in investment funds and I'm working on replenishing my cash buffer. Once I've done that I'm going to drip feed £100 per month into a Vanguard S&S ISA and see if I can do the same for DS. I opened a LISA for him when he turned 18 to help build a deposit for a property, and I"ve managed to max it out for the first two financial years.
I see my role as building financial independence for me, but also to facilitate it for my family. My parents came from poor backgrounds, but worked overseas in order to be able to save to buy a house (first in their respective families to do so). They've never earned a lot, but been frugal down the years and hope to pass on what they have managed to accumulate to their children (basically a small house and some cash savings). I want to continue to build from where we are now so that I can give my son a decent leg-up and he can attain security, independence and maybe take a few more risks at an earlier stage than I did. This is what wealthy, secure people do, and that is how I aim to live and for him to live! I talk to him a lot about money, and he's a saver and a grafter, as well as knowing the value of spending on good experiences.